Jin Ladakiyon Ki Jitni
Der Se Shadi Hoti Hai Woh Utani Hi Badi Bindi Lagati Hai, Utani Hi Gahari Mang
Bharati Hai (The more late the girls are married, the bigger the bindi on
the forehead, the deeper the vermillion in the parting of their hair).
This was Raj Narayan Mishra’s famous observation in his immensely
popular weekly column ‘Dhumta Hua Aina (roving mirror) in Desh Bandhu, the
newspaper from Raipur
which is well past its glorious days now. This particular column had probably
appeared in mid seventies, though I’m not very sure. For, I had not read the
column, only heard about the widely talked out observation from others.
Mishra had produced a myriad such catchy comments from his
prolific pen. Whatever the issues—political, social, economic, familial or
civic—Mishra was adorably notorious for cheeky comments. Readers would love his
column more for this cheekiness than the issues it dealt with.
The column was unsparing of people who mattered- big and
small-- but its beauty was that none would get provoked enough to vent ire.
That way, ‘Da’ was Ajat Shatru, as Lalil Surjan rightly pointed out in his
homage to Raj Narayan Mishra in a column in Desh Bandhu last month.
Raj Narayan Mishra, who was affectionately addressed as
‘Da’, died last month at the ripe age of 80. He had earned popularity as
journalist while working in Desh Bandhu for over three decades. Originally from
Uttar Pradesh, Da shifted from Jabalpur to Raipur in early sixties and
settled there.
I spent some turbulent months in 1989 with Da in Durg while
we were together working for Amar Kiran, a newspaper launched by an upstart
Sardarji in the hope of making quick money through means more foul than fair. Da
had a very hard time salvaging his reputation he had built over three decades
in Desh Bandhu.
At times he looked pathetic, especially when drunk. I would
wonder whether to pity or get angry at his helplessness. The Sardar had hired
him as editor and put his in his own hotel. The Sardar’s was a rag- to-riche
story in iron trade. He had minted money through contracts and contacts in the
Bhilai Steel Plant. He was a semi-literate, impatient, eccentric nouveau
riche who was absurdly keen to earn respectability through owning a
newspaper.
Da, who had quit Desh Bandhu, proved an easy and potentially
lucrative catch for the Sardar. Da too had no better option in the given
situation.
A week after Da joining the paper, I contacted him from Bhopal. Da was my
admirer. Or, so he would let me feel. He seemed particularly charmed by my
style of interviewing and profiling of important people in the ‘Saptahik Desh
Bandhu’, the weekly from Bhopal
I was working in. We had struck closeness in Satna (1985) and later Jabalpur.
I and Da were in the launching team of Satna edition of Desh
Bandhu. Da had come from Raipur
to guide the paper, though we had late Shyam Sundar Sharma as editor. Sharmaji,
a retired additional director in the state’s public relation department, owed
his post to his proximity to Mayaram Surjan (Babuji). He was affable, harmless
and master at guffawing at the drop of the hat. But editor’s job required more
than that. Sharmaji had trouble shedding his PRO job he had moulded himself
into over three decades of service in the MP government.
We were appalled when in one of his editorials he fawningly
wrote about inauguration of some project by ‘Shri Arjun Singh ke Kar Kamalon
dwara’.
So, Lalitji had valid concern that the fledging Satna
edition needed professional hands to guide. He sent two of Desh Bandhu’s stalwarts
–Satyen Gumashta and Raj Narayan Mishra—from Raipur one after the other. Both had
different expertise—Gumashta ji was a veteran on the desk job, Da’s forte was,
of course, rural reporting. He had the credit of putting rural reporting in
Chhattisgarh region (it was not state then) on national map.
Da was the first Statesman rural reporting award recipient for
Desh Bandhu in sixties. Having blazed the trail, Da delightfully witnessed a
dozen Statesman awards coming to his paper in the subsequent years.
We instantly struck friendship in Satna. Yes, friendship is
the right word. For, Da was never officious or condescending to his colleagues,
no matter the age difference. The bonding got further cemented in Jabalpur, partly through boozing, when he was ‘shunted’
from Raipur for
a while. He vainly tried to recreate his Raipur
magic in Jabalpur
eveninger. Frustrated, Da kept a low profile and whiled his time mostly
boozing.
Although we did not maintain contacts, Da would some time
call from Raipur
to praise my stories in Saptahik Deshbandhu. The tie of mutual admiration,
endured through years, prompted me to ask Da if he would like to appoint me as Bhopal correspondent of
Amar Kiran. He was more than eager to have me in. That was the time Da had the
blank cheque from the Sardar.
When I went to Durg, the Sardar requested if I could stay
back for a couple of months to help launch the paper. I readily agreed. He put
me with Da and another colleague from Jabalpur TIllu Verma (now a lawyer in
Bilaspur) in his hotel.
Despite the Sardar’s initial extravagance and enthusiasm, I
could sense something is rotten in the state of Denmark. Da betrayed his unease in
apparent disinterest in work. Sardar’s son and two nephews, all three spoiled
brats, would use Da’s room like an open bar.
Somehow, the paper got going. Before too long, the Sardar
started showing his true colour. One day I learnt from our Bhilai correspondent
that he brought a briefcase from a liquor baron for the Sardar in lieu of not
publishing a report. It was a clear blackmail. Da knew it though he was not a
party in it.
Barely a week later, a blackmailer hack of Durg wrote some
nasty piece about the Sardar. A stung Sardar asked Da to cook up a bizarre
story about the hack’s wife’s ‘infidelity’ and publish in the paper. For
someone who had earned his name for strong socialist views and championing
causes of the downtrodden, Da’s acute predicament in the face of the Sardar’s
order was indescribable. But he acquiesced in and wrote nastier piece than was
published about the Sardar.
It was a vulgar piece of which even a rank blackmailer would
be ashamed of. Such was the time we endured in Durg.
Sardar hated Da and made no bones about it. He hated me too
but was diplomatic about it for he ( mistakenly) thought I was quite
influential journalist in Bhopal
who must not be antagonized.
Not even for a day, Da could exercise his editor authority
in the paper with the kind of aplomb he was expected. Those were horrible days.
One day Tillu Verma, who was made city chief, printed an utterly absurd story
about a house haunted by ghosts. Such superstitious stories would be hard to
find even in Manohar Kahaniyan. But Da tolerated because the Sardar had liked
it.
There are so many things about the nightmare that Amar Kiran
to me and Da proved. Only respite for me was a girl friend about which I will
never write in details. For Da, there was no respite except his drinks. He had
stopped discriminating between day and night for drinks in those days.
Nice trip.Thanks for sharing your trip experience. Shooting up as an important industrial hub after the establishment of the Bhilai Steel Plant as well, Durg stands as one of the largest cities of the state today. It's also an important pilgrimage centre as it houses the famous Deorbhijia Temple. Check out all best hotels in Durg also.
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